#WhereILivedWednesday 1st Street & 1st Avenue

by Shari on January 23, 2014

This post is part of the series #WhereILivedWednesday started by my dear friend Ann Imig of Ann’s Rants, so head on over there and read all the memories of former domiciles.

“First & First”, we called it. In 1990, the cross-street of First Street and First Avenue was not only not the hipster land it is today, it was downright scary and dangerous. And depressing. Really depressing. Did I mention that it was depressing? The block was depressing, the people were depressing, and the building I lived in was so depressing that a dog who lived on the top floor apparently couldn’t take it any longer and committed suicide by jumping off the roof. When we heard of his demise, my roommate Mary and I shook our heads and whispered, “We get it, Butch.”

There was only one reason to live in a building that had been put up as temporary housing in the 1930′s and never upgraded to “permanent”–the price. The one-room studio on the 5th floor was $600 a month, so we each paid $300. Which, of course, is dirt cheap, but after living there about a week, we started feeling like the landlord should be paying us.

No photographs remain from First & First, so allow me to try to paint the image in your mind and pay your therapy bills afterward.

The walls and floor of the 225 square-foot room were raw, splintery, unfinished, unpainted plywood and there was a three-inch gap between them, which was quite handy for looking down into the interior–or shall we say, “bowels”–of the building and seeing veritable armies of mice doing gymnastics practice. There was a little door in the corner, which you would assume was the bathroom, until you opened it and realized that the “room” was only big enough for a toilet and the door would only shut if you sat all the way back on the seat and tucked up your legs. Along one wall of the studio was a mini-refrigerator, a sink and a shower stall. And in some strange twist of fate–and plumbing–the sink and the stall pipes were connected, so on one occasion when I was showering while Mary was washing dishes, I looked down to see spaghetti back up out of the drain and wrap itself around my foot. We had to call a plumber in Milton, ON to come out and check out our pipes.

“We get it, Butch.”

There was a creepy little bodega immediately outside our front door which I would occasionally step in to for a pack of gum, always checking for razor blades in the packaging. On one visit, I was feeling cocky and decided to look for a carton of milk in the refrigerator unit, only to discover that it was unplugged and empty. When I mentioned this to the man behind the cash register, he gave me a blank and faintly sinister stare, and I quickly dropped the matter. Two days later, the front of the bodega was cordoned off with orange police tape because there had been a shoot-out and there were a number of bodies inside. Mary patted my shoulder and told me I could purchase my gum and milk at the brothel down the street.

“We get it, Butch.”

I will say, however, that poor Butch may have survived First & First if he had had Mary as a roommate. Despite the body count and mouse count, I recall First & First first and foremost for its laughter and love. It goes to show that the most depressing of locations–did I mention that it was depressing?–can be overcome by the spirit of a truly wonderful friend, the kind of friend that makes staring down into the bowels of a tenement building at cartwheeling rodents a fond memory.

But the spaghetti foot bath? Not so much.

{ 14 comments… read them below or add one }

Liz @ PeaceLoveGuac January 23, 2014 at 2:38 pm

Yay for the Marys in our life who keep us off the ledge!


Shari January 23, 2014 at 5:29 pm

Amen to that, Liz!


Ann January 23, 2014 at 2:49 pm

And also, convenient for saying many Hail Marys–given the situation.

I wasn’t brave enough for Broadway or Bust, and I give you tons of credit. I mean, this is Beaches-worthy, Bette.


Shari January 23, 2014 at 5:30 pm

Thank you, Barbara Hershey.


Ellen January 23, 2014 at 5:14 pm

Clearly you were able to use living at First & First to propel yourself on to better things. Nowhere to go but up after that experience!


Shari January 23, 2014 at 5:31 pm

Very true, Ellen. I have a bathroom now. And my dog is somewhat sane.


Charlie S January 23, 2014 at 5:19 pm

Hilarious. Funnier because it’s all true.


Shari January 23, 2014 at 5:32 pm

Ah, the things we did for love, right, Charlie? I speak, of course, to one who also had suicidal pets. :-(


Kristin January 24, 2014 at 12:52 am

Hmmm, my condemned house seems slightly less terrible right now. :/

No, I’m not kidding.


dusty earth mother January 24, 2014 at 1:27 am

I appreciate that you’re not kidding, Kristin.


Tarja January 24, 2014 at 4:47 am

You know what I find the most disturbing about all of this? Is that even in 1990, THAT WAS $600. But you are so right, it don’t matter where you live as long as you’re with good people.

Love hearing about your NYC years, Shari! xo


dusty earth mother January 24, 2014 at 12:22 pm

You’re so right, Tarja! I could have used that money for other things, like my PTSD therapy.


Lady Jennie February 3, 2014 at 2:49 pm

I know. I’m with Tarja. How could it have been so expensive???


Linda Roy February 3, 2014 at 6:39 pm

Ah…NYC…so romantic and yet, so scary! I lived in a studio on Delancey and Norfolk in 1987 – with a roommate – (ground floor, so – stylish bars on the windows) , one window facing a brick wall, rats hanging from adjacent window ledge…all for $1000 a month. But hey – brand new parkay floors. Poor Butch. Only the rats committed suicide at our building.


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